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Fixing up the kitchen area of my studio to help maximize storage, and he’s always going above and beyond - refinishing and designing new cabinet doors 🥰

We bought used cabinets and I was going to leave them as they are for now, but @the1russell installed and built the countertops so now they need to look perfect 👌🏼.

#renovating #artstudıo #cabinetrefinishing #myfavoriteboyfriend

Fixing up the kitchen area of my studio to help maximize storage, and he’s always going above and beyond - refinishing and designing new cabinet doors 🥰

We bought used cabinets and I was going to leave them as they are for now, but @the1russell installed and built the countertops so now they need to look perfect 👌🏼.

#renovating #artstudıo #cabinetrefinishing #myfavoriteboyfriend

“Fly Away”
24x18 mixed acrylic and oil on canvas

Link to site in bio or message for more info.

#flyaway #butterflywings #painting #aryahart

“Fly Away”
24x18 mixed acrylic and oil on canvas

Link to site in bio or message for more info.

#flyaway #butterflywings #painting #aryahart

Happy 4th birthday to 3 kittens who took over my home! 🥳 Born into the box that E made cozy for their mommy, which she actually used when the time came.

No. 1, No. 2, and No. 3 - like Code Name Kids Next Door 😅
We weren’t going to keep them.
Luna wasn’t my cat (but she stayed too - the cat distribution system has spoken and she is mine).
They had numbers, not names, so I wouldn’t get attached.

And now I’m handing over $2k for emergency surgery because they’re family 🤷🏼‍♀️

And they have had names for a while now, in case you’re wondering.
No. 1 = Alex because she climbs everything all the time…
No. 2 = Jane, Jane Bond Gato, aka Fat Jane, but she’s sneaky.
No. 3 = Fizzgig after the fluffy pet in The Dark Crystal.

#catbirthday #kittensofig #alexhonnoldwannabe #janebond #darkcrystal

Happy 4th birthday to 3 kittens who took over my home! 🥳 Born into the box that E made cozy for their mommy, which she actually used when the time came.

No. 1, No. 2, and No. 3 - like Code Name Kids Next Door 😅
We weren’t going to keep them.
Luna wasn’t my cat (but she stayed too - the cat distribution system has spoken and she is mine).
They had numbers, not names, so I wouldn’t get attached.

And now I’m handing over $2k for emergency surgery because they’re family 🤷🏼‍♀️

And they have had names for a while now, in case you’re wondering.
No. 1 = Alex because she climbs everything all the time…
No. 2 = Jane, Jane Bond Gato, aka Fat Jane, but she’s sneaky.
No. 3 = Fizzgig after the fluffy pet in The Dark Crystal.

#catbirthday #kittensofig #alexhonnoldwannabe #janebond #darkcrystal

Hi everyone!

You’re invited to join me virtually this afternoon at 4pm PST / 6pm CST. I’ll be sharing some of my work, what’s happening in my journey and what is to come.

Please feel free to share!

https://us05web.zoom.us/j/3054185175
Passcode: 5d2j0w

This has been a journey long in the making 🎨 and I look forward to seeing and talking with you all!

Hi everyone!

You’re invited to join me virtually this afternoon at 4pm PST / 6pm CST. I’ll be sharing some of my work, what’s happening in my journey and what is to come.

Please feel free to share!

https://us05web.zoom.us/j/3054185175
Passcode: 5d2j0w

This has been a journey long in the making 🎨 and I look forward to seeing and talking with you all!

I think the first painted portrait I ever did was of painter Henri Rousseau. I chose a black and white photo that I then did on a black background. 8th grade project. I recall someone saying black and white was typically considered more difficult. But I was already knee deep into that painting and no one had told me yet to see it as more difficult so I didn’t. To this day I secretly love working on black backgrounds.

#blackandwhite #portrait #dogportrait #pitbull #workinprogress

I think the first painted portrait I ever did was of painter Henri Rousseau. I chose a black and white photo that I then did on a black background. 8th grade project. I recall someone saying black and white was typically considered more difficult. But I was already knee deep into that painting and no one had told me yet to see it as more difficult so I didn’t. To this day I secretly love working on black backgrounds.

#blackandwhite #portrait #dogportrait #pitbull #workinprogress

This morning Russell was trying to get Fig to make a decision bewteen inside or outside. He was clearly torn, and then he saw me. He promptly placed himself at my side and sat, proud and smiling like the good boy he is. It was such a clear demonstration of, “I choose you!” And it made my day 🥰.

Sass very clearly overheard me telling Fig I’ll never question his love for me like I do with her sometimes (she’s moody 🤷🏼‍♀️). She jumped into my work chair and proceeded to bombard me with Sassafras love 😂. She needed to tell me, “I DO LOVE YOU, MOM!!!”

This morning Russell was trying to get Fig to make a decision bewteen inside or outside. He was clearly torn, and then he saw me. He promptly placed himself at my side and sat, proud and smiling like the good boy he is. It was such a clear demonstration of, “I choose you!” And it made my day 🥰.

Sass very clearly overheard me telling Fig I’ll never question his love for me like I do with her sometimes (she’s moody 🤷🏼‍♀️). She jumped into my work chair and proceeded to bombard me with Sassafras love 😂. She needed to tell me, “I DO LOVE YOU, MOM!!!”

When meeting Figaro and discussing adoption, my main concern was if Sass was going to be too much for him. Their response: you can’t overwhelm him.

He is a husky, but he’s compromised, so I needed to be sure and they were right. He’s slightly larger visibly, but Sass has got 15 pounds on him of, I’m sure, solid muscle, and they body slam all the time 😅. Fig is made of fluff and air 😂.

I will add he is his most vocal when he needs space and Sass isn’t giving it. He comes up to me and voices ALL his grievances and I can’t help but sympathize.

P.S. original sound turned off so you don’t need to hear all of my commentary 🤣.

When meeting Figaro and discussing adoption, my main concern was if Sass was going to be too much for him. Their response: you can’t overwhelm him.

He is a husky, but he’s compromised, so I needed to be sure and they were right. He’s slightly larger visibly, but Sass has got 15 pounds on him of, I’m sure, solid muscle, and they body slam all the time 😅. Fig is made of fluff and air 😂.

I will add he is his most vocal when he needs space and Sass isn’t giving it. He comes up to me and voices ALL his grievances and I can’t help but sympathize.

P.S. original sound turned off so you don’t need to hear all of my commentary 🤣.

I can never capture how absolutely perfect the water is.

Out on the Sound alone for 15 minitws before yoga, everything so calm and peaceful, the slightest ripple, wondering about all that lives beneath, and reminding myself that I live here - a few minutes drive and I get to come here as often as I want. The mountains, the ocean, and everything inbetween. 🩵

I can never capture how absolutely perfect the water is.

Out on the Sound alone for 15 minitws before yoga, everything so calm and peaceful, the slightest ripple, wondering about all that lives beneath, and reminding myself that I live here - a few minutes drive and I get to come here as often as I want. The mountains, the ocean, and everything inbetween. 🩵

Figaro is the most loyal pup. Always as close to me as he can possibly get. 🩵

Sassy is out roaming the yard, but Fig is laying on the floor close by while I am in the ADU, on top of the bar, peeling off fake stained glass from the window 🙃. (To all who loved that gale stain, it is a South facing window and I worship the sun, it needed to go.) The door is wide open, it is absolutely his choice.

Figaro is the most loyal pup. Always as close to me as he can possibly get. 🩵

Sassy is out roaming the yard, but Fig is laying on the floor close by while I am in the ADU, on top of the bar, peeling off fake stained glass from the window 🙃. (To all who loved that gale stain, it is a South facing window and I worship the sun, it needed to go.) The door is wide open, it is absolutely his choice.

They were on a full on date with mood lighting and a bottle of wine until Russell interrupted them 😅. #figaro #husky #rescuepup #tripod #sassafras #pittmix #puppylove

They were on a full on date with mood lighting and a bottle of wine until Russell interrupted them 😅. #figaro #husky #rescuepup #tripod #sassafras #pittmix #puppylove

When it’s morning, but for some reason only dad’s home, and you normally nap in the living room while mom works, but now you don’t know where to be and you have this tripod brother who always lays with his back leg to the side so now you do too.
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I swear, they are the same dog through the looking glass!!

#tripod #husky #pittmix #rescuepup #sassafras #figaro #tripoddog #mirrored

When it’s morning, but for some reason only dad’s home, and you normally nap in the living room while mom works, but now you don’t know where to be and you have this tripod brother who always lays with his back leg to the side so now you do too.
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I swear, they are the same dog through the looking glass!!

#tripod #husky #pittmix #rescuepup #sassafras #figaro #tripoddog #mirrored

We live in such a magical place

#pnw #cannonbeach #titlowbeach #tacoma #seastar

We live in such a magical place

#pnw #cannonbeach #titlowbeach #tacoma #seastar

When I dropped Aryah off at daycare after school Monday she announced, “I graduate in 4 days!!” Today was the day - kindergarten graduation 🥳

When I dropped Aryah off at daycare after school Monday she announced, “I graduate in 4 days!!” Today was the day - kindergarten graduation 🥳

The first time I celebrated your birthday with you, there were tutus involved. The second year, a belated apron. (Where is that apron?) The third… perhaps no new clothing, but the unpacking of it all in a new home. Tomorrow, I’ll be sure to dress you up when we go out 😉.

I’m not sure why clothing came to mind while writing this, your taste sure is unique when it comes to that, and the complete opposite of mine. Maybe that’s the point.

I could list a hundred things off the top of my head if which we are opposites on. Many of them to do with taste. Many more to do with how we opperate. In a similar vain, when I think back, there were so many reasons I thought that you were not the one. Until I thought you were. Because of all those reasons and ways, not one of them mattered.

What does matter are the features and characteristics that would take too long to explain as Engish doesn’t contain the words for them. Feelings formed in a place that precedes language completely.
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Happy birthday, Russell, I’m so happy you’re here with me.

The first time I celebrated your birthday with you, there were tutus involved. The second year, a belated apron. (Where is that apron?) The third… perhaps no new clothing, but the unpacking of it all in a new home. Tomorrow, I’ll be sure to dress you up when we go out 😉.

I’m not sure why clothing came to mind while writing this, your taste sure is unique when it comes to that, and the complete opposite of mine. Maybe that’s the point.

I could list a hundred things off the top of my head if which we are opposites on. Many of them to do with taste. Many more to do with how we opperate. In a similar vain, when I think back, there were so many reasons I thought that you were not the one. Until I thought you were. Because of all those reasons and ways, not one of them mattered.

What does matter are the features and characteristics that would take too long to explain as Engish doesn’t contain the words for them. Feelings formed in a place that precedes language completely.
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Happy birthday, Russell, I’m so happy you’re here with me.

Cordel: Are we busy the weekend of May 24th?

Me: No.

Cordel: Can I help my friend build a deck?

Me: A deck deck?

Cordel: Yeah.

Me: Absolutely!
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He spent 4 days there and was eager to go back every day. The feedback I received about how he problem solved, posing solutions on how to navigate the build, and his positive attitude throughout it all are invaluable. Not to mention the all skills he learned.

Cordel: Are we busy the weekend of May 24th?

Me: No.

Cordel: Can I help my friend build a deck?

Me: A deck deck?

Cordel: Yeah.

Me: Absolutely!
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He spent 4 days there and was eager to go back every day. The feedback I received about how he problem solved, posing solutions on how to navigate the build, and his positive attitude throughout it all are invaluable. Not to mention the all skills he learned.

To the spunkiest and wittiest 6 year old I know, happy birthday Aryah!! 🥳

Your joy and love are unmatched and untethered; they burst from you when you see the peoplee you love, which is everyone.

I remember your tiny little face when you were born and had to bite my tongue and hold my own hand to let your mom hold you before I did. I certainly got my turn and many more.

To the spunkiest and wittiest 6 year old I know, happy birthday Aryah!! 🥳

Your joy and love are unmatched and untethered; they burst from you when you see the peoplee you love, which is everyone.

I remember your tiny little face when you were born and had to bite my tongue and hold my own hand to let your mom hold you before I did. I certainly got my turn and many more.

Day 2 of enduring roofing while working from home… why I didn’t take a 3 day vacation? Good question.

Know that my review of their work will include whether or not my butterbur are still standing in the end 😅.

Day 2 of enduring roofing while working from home… why I didn’t take a 3 day vacation? Good question.

Know that my review of their work will include whether or not my butterbur are still standing in the end 😅.

Short first hike with Figaro to see how he’d do. I didn’t think distance would be a problem, he’s still built for that and speed, but wanted to see how he did on inclines, and he hopped up the rocks amazingly! Though, there were certainly some points where when I told him which direction he needed to head, he looked left and right first as if to ask, “Are you sure?” 😂

He did not like the grated stairs at all! Once he looked down, he slithered back to the safety of the ground. 🥺

Last pic of him watching us use the back of the vehicle as a table.

Short first hike with Figaro to see how he’d do. I didn’t think distance would be a problem, he’s still built for that and speed, but wanted to see how he did on inclines, and he hopped up the rocks amazingly! Though, there were certainly some points where when I told him which direction he needed to head, he looked left and right first as if to ask, “Are you sure?” 😂

He did not like the grated stairs at all! Once he looked down, he slithered back to the safety of the ground. 🥺

Last pic of him watching us use the back of the vehicle as a table.

I think I share this photo every year.
Bare with me while I share it again and reflect.

This was taken exactly 10 years ago.
Possibly to the hour.

It was the last photo I took before moving from WI and has sat on my work desks since.

It is one of my favorite photos.

I remember taking it.
I remember then getting only E into my van and driving to my parent’s house to collect my dad who was coming along for the ride.
I remember knowing in my heart that everyone else would follow soon.
I remember starting the drive and thinking it was a direction I’d rarely, if ever, taken from my parent’s house.

I am so grateful my dad came along.
Not because I needed him, but because it was the greatest opportunity I’ve ever had to spend time like that with my dad.

I have no photos from that trip.

E was not yet 2.
Rear-facing, my dad and I took turns holding her little hand for hours while driving as it was all she needed to be calm.
He was never frustrated or embarrassed for a second by her behavior as some can be with toddlers in public.
He was never not relaxed and truly just along for the ride, seeing parts of the country he never had before.

He wasn’t judgmental towards me for leaving.
He wasn’t worried for me either.
For all of that I am so grateful.
As leaving was the best and hardest decision I have ever made.

I think I share this photo every year.
Bare with me while I share it again and reflect.

This was taken exactly 10 years ago.
Possibly to the hour.

It was the last photo I took before moving from WI and has sat on my work desks since.

It is one of my favorite photos.

I remember taking it.
I remember then getting only E into my van and driving to my parent’s house to collect my dad who was coming along for the ride.
I remember knowing in my heart that everyone else would follow soon.
I remember starting the drive and thinking it was a direction I’d rarely, if ever, taken from my parent’s house.

I am so grateful my dad came along.
Not because I needed him, but because it was the greatest opportunity I’ve ever had to spend time like that with my dad.

I have no photos from that trip.

E was not yet 2.
Rear-facing, my dad and I took turns holding her little hand for hours while driving as it was all she needed to be calm.
He was never frustrated or embarrassed for a second by her behavior as some can be with toddlers in public.
He was never not relaxed and truly just along for the ride, seeing parts of the country he never had before.

He wasn’t judgmental towards me for leaving.
He wasn’t worried for me either.
For all of that I am so grateful.
As leaving was the best and hardest decision I have ever made.

We have found Fig’s nemesis…

We have found Fig’s nemesis…

Next Friday will mark the end of my third journey through The Artist's Way. Each year allows me to dig a little deeper or to find the places I didn't think needed to be dug into.

2026 WAS going to be my break year. Do something different. But as you walk on the path, the path appears, and it would only be a regret to not take the opportunities it presents to me.

So, since it crossed my mind mid-course to someday facilitate my own TAW group, and as the book would certainly predict, I was asked if next year I would be interested in doing just that.

And, since we already announced it in Friday’s meeting, I think it's safe to announce more widely that I will be facilitating Friday evenings at the Center for Spiritual Living, Tacoma!

Watch for more info in September!

Next Friday will mark the end of my third journey through The Artist's Way. Each year allows me to dig a little deeper or to find the places I didn't think needed to be dug into.

2026 WAS going to be my break year. Do something different. But as you walk on the path, the path appears, and it would only be a regret to not take the opportunities it presents to me.

So, since it crossed my mind mid-course to someday facilitate my own TAW group, and as the book would certainly predict, I was asked if next year I would be interested in doing just that.

And, since we already announced it in Friday’s meeting, I think it's safe to announce more widely that I will be facilitating Friday evenings at the Center for Spiritual Living, Tacoma!

Watch for more info in September!

We did a meet and greet with Apollo today 🩵.
He was all cuddles and loves love and I never even thought to get my own pics of him because that took up all my attention. He walked right up and just laid in my lap more than once 🥹.

Next step, meet and greet with Sassafras. And then he’s hopefully coming home!! 🤞🏼

We did a meet and greet with Apollo today 🩵.
He was all cuddles and loves love and I never even thought to get my own pics of him because that took up all my attention. He walked right up and just laid in my lap more than once 🥹.

Next step, meet and greet with Sassafras. And then he’s hopefully coming home!! 🤞🏼

Post-walk nap. She could not decide where she wanted to lay, but I think has settled on the blanket over the bed, stall laying sideways.
It’s a ruff life.

Post-walk nap. She could not decide where she wanted to lay, but I think has settled on the blanket over the bed, stall laying sideways.
It’s a ruff life.

10 years ago I was preparing to move away from WI, where I’d lived all my life, to the west coast. It was the hardest decision I’d made to date.

I don’t know that any area is bad for everyone, but I do believe one place is not good for everyone and I needed to leave; I was long overdue.

CA wasn’t the right place either, but it was beautiful, and a necessary stop in my journey.

While there, someone had given me the advice that at 18 months, you’re probably leaning towards staying or leaving, but at 3 years, you’ll know if it’s meant for you. I left after 3.5 years. But I was merely moving on, not back.

10 years ago I was preparing to move away from WI, where I’d lived all my life, to the west coast. It was the hardest decision I’d made to date.

I don’t know that any area is bad for everyone, but I do believe one place is not good for everyone and I needed to leave; I was long overdue.

CA wasn’t the right place either, but it was beautiful, and a necessary stop in my journey.

While there, someone had given me the advice that at 18 months, you’re probably leaning towards staying or leaving, but at 3 years, you’ll know if it’s meant for you. I left after 3.5 years. But I was merely moving on, not back.

No worry about mud or water, comfort is the only objective. It’s a good life!

No worry about mud or water, comfort is the only objective. It’s a good life!

I will be uploading more paintings to my website this weekend, to include some originals.

2 recently completed oil pieces on canvas:
“Fly Away” 24x18
“In Silence” 24x30

I did not know what either of these would be when I began. I do know that I initially envisioned them both clearly and at some point decided, that like so many things in life, they were not meant to be clear.

#art #oilpainting #original

I will be uploading more paintings to my website this weekend, to include some originals.

2 recently completed oil pieces on canvas:
“Fly Away” 24x18
“In Silence” 24x30

I did not know what either of these would be when I began. I do know that I initially envisioned them both clearly and at some point decided, that like so many things in life, they were not meant to be clear.

#art #oilpainting #original

This guy once told me he didn’t want to date anyone with small children; that he didn’t really like little kids. He also sounded very unenthusiastic when I told him I was applying to adopt a puppy.

Now they both race to him when he gets home, and I promise you he looks forward to both of their hugs. He’s told me so ☺️. And when Aryah hasn’t been over in a while, he asks about her 🤫. It makes my heart want to burst 🥹.

(Don’t mind his face, there was a lot of motion happening and I only took one pic 🤷🏼‍♀️.)

This guy once told me he didn’t want to date anyone with small children; that he didn’t really like little kids. He also sounded very unenthusiastic when I told him I was applying to adopt a puppy.

Now they both race to him when he gets home, and I promise you he looks forward to both of their hugs. He’s told me so ☺️. And when Aryah hasn’t been over in a while, he asks about her 🤫. It makes my heart want to burst 🥹.

(Don’t mind his face, there was a lot of motion happening and I only took one pic 🤷🏼‍♀️.)

I have been outside, barefoot, doing yard work all day in the sun. Supposedly it only got up to 60°, but it sure felt warmer, and I didn’t think I’d be comfortable in a tank top and shorts on March 1. My hands and feet are filthy and I’m not sure I could be happier ☺️.

This little visitor came by at least 3x while I was cleaning this garden bed. About 2’ from my head. It’s fascinating seeing such a magnificent, sparkling magenta in nature. Like sequins covering his head and neck.

I have been outside, barefoot, doing yard work all day in the sun. Supposedly it only got up to 60°, but it sure felt warmer, and I didn’t think I’d be comfortable in a tank top and shorts on March 1. My hands and feet are filthy and I’m not sure I could be happier ☺️.

This little visitor came by at least 3x while I was cleaning this garden bed. About 2’ from my head. It’s fascinating seeing such a magnificent, sparkling magenta in nature. Like sequins covering his head and neck.

An ode to rectangles was stumbled upon as I walked into the kitchen.
#cats #catsonrectangles #4cats #catsofinstagram

An ode to rectangles was stumbled upon as I walked into the kitchen.
#cats #catsonrectangles #4cats #catsofinstagram

Sass had her first, tiny encounter with snow and ice today, and her first days in freezing temps.

Hike #6 for her.

Her fur seems thin, but she doesn’t ever seem cold. In addition to this she spent most of yesterday outside by choice in 31°. As in, I’d call her in, she’d reluctantly come, and then be right back to ringing the bell to be let out.

She’s also getting big - time for a new harness.

Sass had her first, tiny encounter with snow and ice today, and her first days in freezing temps.

Hike #6 for her.

Her fur seems thin, but she doesn’t ever seem cold. In addition to this she spent most of yesterday outside by choice in 31°. As in, I’d call her in, she’d reluctantly come, and then be right back to ringing the bell to be let out.

She’s also getting big - time for a new harness.

In case anyone was wondering, she is absolutely MY baby! She loves her Russell, and the cute aggression between them is mutual, but I am her person. 🩷

She couldn’t walk ahead, next to him, because she spent too much time stopping to make sure I was still there. And when I am out of town, she makes sure he doesn’t sleep because they need to stay up and wait for me - preferably outside where she can watch for my car 😅.

In case anyone was wondering, she is absolutely MY baby! She loves her Russell, and the cute aggression between them is mutual, but I am her person. 🩷

She couldn’t walk ahead, next to him, because she spent too much time stopping to make sure I was still there. And when I am out of town, she makes sure he doesn’t sleep because they need to stay up and wait for me - preferably outside where she can watch for my car 😅.

Thoughts on being “busy”.

As Brianna Weist states it - People who are constantly “busy” are running from themselves.

Busy a distraction.

There are so many people who have full lives, full schedules, and do not define themselves this way.

I am not “busy”.

I have a full, beautiful life. And I have time.

You too have time.
For all the things you want to have time for.

Things come up. Things are pre-scheduled. You cannot make time for all the things all of the time. That is not what this is about.

“Busy” comes with the pre-determination that a person is not willing to make time.

And you do make time.
For what matters.
It is a choice.
Telling someone you are busy, telling YOURSELF you are busy, is saying, “my busyness is more important.”

Is it?
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The next time you’re about to say you are too busy. Stop and think if you really are. Or are you just feeling the pressure to do things society has deemed “more important”?

Thoughts on being “busy”.

As Brianna Weist states it - People who are constantly “busy” are running from themselves.

Busy a distraction.

There are so many people who have full lives, full schedules, and do not define themselves this way.

I am not “busy”.

I have a full, beautiful life. And I have time.

You too have time.
For all the things you want to have time for.

Things come up. Things are pre-scheduled. You cannot make time for all the things all of the time. That is not what this is about.

“Busy” comes with the pre-determination that a person is not willing to make time.

And you do make time.
For what matters.
It is a choice.
Telling someone you are busy, telling YOURSELF you are busy, is saying, “my busyness is more important.”

Is it?
.
.
.
The next time you’re about to say you are too busy. Stop and think if you really are. Or are you just feeling the pressure to do things society has deemed “more important”?

If you have ever thought to yourself, “I am so nice to people and always get hurt by being nice.” This book is for you.

If you’re unhappy, this is for you, as the premis of the book is really how you live happily.

It is NOT intended to have people dislike you, but to understand it’s ok if people don’t. That’s on them.

It DOES explain why that ☝️ type of situation happens.

It DOES explain, in very simple dialogue, how to own your life, how happiness is possible (including what happiness is because that is a question some have), and how now is the most important time.

It reads easily and as a dialogue between 2 people through the entire book. The Youth asking questions, and requesting clarification wherever things don’t immediately make sense or don’t seem to mesh, so it is thorough.

And the actions are as simple as the words.
#thecouragetobedislikedbook #happiness #courage #confidence

If you have ever thought to yourself, “I am so nice to people and always get hurt by being nice.” This book is for you.

If you’re unhappy, this is for you, as the premis of the book is really how you live happily.

It is NOT intended to have people dislike you, but to understand it’s ok if people don’t. That’s on them.

It DOES explain why that ☝️ type of situation happens.

It DOES explain, in very simple dialogue, how to own your life, how happiness is possible (including what happiness is because that is a question some have), and how now is the most important time.

It reads easily and as a dialogue between 2 people through the entire book. The Youth asking questions, and requesting clarification wherever things don’t immediately make sense or don’t seem to mesh, so it is thorough.

And the actions are as simple as the words.
#thecouragetobedislikedbook #happiness #courage #confidence

Sass’s first real hike! She protested after about 4 miles, when @h_steele_ came to the rescue, carrying her for about a quarter mile, and again the last half mile. Otherwise, she did really good for her first time!
Now she’s back home, fresh out of a bath, and staring at me like, “When are we going to bed??”
@mz.nique808 @islandgirlwandering

Sass’s first real hike! She protested after about 4 miles, when @h_steele_ came to the rescue, carrying her for about a quarter mile, and again the last half mile. Otherwise, she did really good for her first time!
Now she’s back home, fresh out of a bath, and staring at me like, “When are we going to bed??”
@mz.nique808 @islandgirlwandering

Last weekend, I was not anticipating owning a puppy.

Thursday, late, I put in my application.

Friday, I was meeting her.

Today she’s home.

Meet Sassafras!!

Last weekend, I was not anticipating owning a puppy.

Thursday, late, I put in my application.

Friday, I was meeting her.

Today she’s home.

Meet Sassafras!!

Dinner with friends.
Every night this past week.
Brunch this morning.
Rainstorm last night.
Sunrise through the moisture.
My view.
My peach tree is ripening.
The pond has been cleaned.
My family on the beach.
Laughter and games.
So much abundance.
Thank you.

Dinner with friends.
Every night this past week.
Brunch this morning.
Rainstorm last night.
Sunrise through the moisture.
My view.
My peach tree is ripening.
The pond has been cleaned.
My family on the beach.
Laughter and games.
So much abundance.
Thank you.

I’ll be at booth #17! Stop by to see me in person, say, “Hi!” and I’ll be sure to send a special gift your way!

As with any new venture, hiccups are sure to occur and it is how we respond to them that truly matters.
My partner in printing has had some backups and glitches on their end and I will not have all the inventory I was hoping to have, in hand, tomorrow. With that said, those prints and some new originals will still all be listed and up for sale on my website for August. So out of love for my friends and all those who support me, I will have something to show my appreciation 🙏🏼

And if you have not already, please go to allisonduellman.com and sign up for emails so you’re the first to know what new items are available!

#artontheavenue #artontheavetacoma #artist

I’ll be at booth #17! Stop by to see me in person, say, “Hi!” and I’ll be sure to send a special gift your way!

As with any new venture, hiccups are sure to occur and it is how we respond to them that truly matters.
My partner in printing has had some backups and glitches on their end and I will not have all the inventory I was hoping to have, in hand, tomorrow. With that said, those prints and some new originals will still all be listed and up for sale on my website for August. So out of love for my friends and all those who support me, I will have something to show my appreciation 🙏🏼

And if you have not already, please go to allisonduellman.com and sign up for emails so you’re the first to know what new items are available!

#artontheavenue #artontheavetacoma #artist

3 years together.

In my mind, since we first got together, this has been the milestone to reach.

After 3 years, I believe, there’s a sense as to whether or not something is right (as long as you’re open to both being an option).

And I have never felt this consistently good.

I have told you, you were not part of the plan. It’s true. Sometimes you think you know exactly what you want and then (again, only if you’re open to it) you realize what you thought you wanted wasn’t so accurate.

I do not need you. You do not complete me.
I want you, I want to be with you, I choose you.
Without you, I will remain complete, I will remain whole, but I will lack all the good that you bring, and that amount of good is great.

I have also told you, I only want you to stay if you choose me too; if I make your life better in a way that makes it worth all of the other things that come with life. I always want to be sure you stay only because you absolutely want to; only because the amount of good I bring you is equally as great.

You have endured me traveling without you, for extended lengths, buying a house, moving, launching a business, raising children and a grandchild. You’ve listened to me express my opinion profusely about any and every thing. And we both have pasts to contend with. (This is a lot for 3 years)

You have done it all freely. I am grateful.

And fortunately, for me, I think you still like me ☺️.

We cannot predict what the future will bring, but know I firmly believe it will be even greater. I also know the power of my belief and I am more than willing to keep you along for the ride.

If you still choose to join me. 💚

PC: @toriosteraa

3 years together.

In my mind, since we first got together, this has been the milestone to reach.

After 3 years, I believe, there’s a sense as to whether or not something is right (as long as you’re open to both being an option).

And I have never felt this consistently good.

I have told you, you were not part of the plan. It’s true. Sometimes you think you know exactly what you want and then (again, only if you’re open to it) you realize what you thought you wanted wasn’t so accurate.

I do not need you. You do not complete me.
I want you, I want to be with you, I choose you.
Without you, I will remain complete, I will remain whole, but I will lack all the good that you bring, and that amount of good is great.

I have also told you, I only want you to stay if you choose me too; if I make your life better in a way that makes it worth all of the other things that come with life. I always want to be sure you stay only because you absolutely want to; only because the amount of good I bring you is equally as great.

You have endured me traveling without you, for extended lengths, buying a house, moving, launching a business, raising children and a grandchild. You’ve listened to me express my opinion profusely about any and every thing. And we both have pasts to contend with. (This is a lot for 3 years)

You have done it all freely. I am grateful.

And fortunately, for me, I think you still like me ☺️.

We cannot predict what the future will bring, but know I firmly believe it will be even greater. I also know the power of my belief and I am more than willing to keep you along for the ride.

If you still choose to join me. 💚

PC: @toriosteraa

Today’s backyard discovery. And they are sweet!

PNW, don’t get me wrong, I do love your abundance of blackberries (mostly), but raspberries are a treat!

Today’s backyard discovery. And they are sweet!

PNW, don’t get me wrong, I do love your abundance of blackberries (mostly), but raspberries are a treat!

allisonduellman.com

I am live!!
More art will be added soon, as well as events to come. I am so excited for my new studio space that is coming along and looking forward to the hours spent creating ahead!

allisonduellman.com

I am live!!
More art will be added soon, as well as events to come. I am so excited for my new studio space that is coming along and looking forward to the hours spent creating ahead!

1️⃣1️⃣ years today!

Officially and chronologically that is.
You entered the world quietly at 12:25 AM CST. Awake, sleepy, and already taking the world in. Although you were born at least 12, soooo 23? Last night, PST?

Ever so pensive, even as a newborn. You have always had the most can-do attitude. Your awareness - always 2 steps ahead, and born willing to take on the world, knowing that you can mold it. And you will.

You now see how others think and are so aware that so many do not see eye to eye with you. Know that that is ok. Know that that is why you are so uniquely you and my greatest wish is you do not conform to what anyone wants of you.

Keep asking ALL the questions.
Keep debating ALL the topics.
Keep listening.
Keep paying attention.
Keep speaking up.
Keep knowing the world is your oyster.
Keep making waves.
Keep being absolutely, unapologetically, Everleigh.
All that matters is your belief that you can.

And, Universe, please give me the strength to never ever let me unknowingly hold you back. 🙏🏼

1️⃣1️⃣ years today!

Officially and chronologically that is.
You entered the world quietly at 12:25 AM CST. Awake, sleepy, and already taking the world in. Although you were born at least 12, soooo 23? Last night, PST?

Ever so pensive, even as a newborn. You have always had the most can-do attitude. Your awareness - always 2 steps ahead, and born willing to take on the world, knowing that you can mold it. And you will.

You now see how others think and are so aware that so many do not see eye to eye with you. Know that that is ok. Know that that is why you are so uniquely you and my greatest wish is you do not conform to what anyone wants of you.

Keep asking ALL the questions.
Keep debating ALL the topics.
Keep listening.
Keep paying attention.
Keep speaking up.
Keep knowing the world is your oyster.
Keep making waves.
Keep being absolutely, unapologetically, Everleigh.
All that matters is your belief that you can.

And, Universe, please give me the strength to never ever let me unknowingly hold you back. 🙏🏼

These happen to surround one side of my pond and can be found in other places in my yard as well. They just began to bloom and, while I was previously fascinated with the look of the leaves and stems, they now have me super intrigued! Dracunculus vulgaris, aka dragon lilies or stink lilies, smell bad to attract flies, but I’m not even upset. They can also take years, as many as 10, to first bloom and can self heat up to 65°! Native to Italy and Greece, they apparently love the PNW, so likely didn’t take that long, but nonetheless, they’re too unique to be upset about. And they only stink for a day.

These happen to surround one side of my pond and can be found in other places in my yard as well. They just began to bloom and, while I was previously fascinated with the look of the leaves and stems, they now have me super intrigued! Dracunculus vulgaris, aka dragon lilies or stink lilies, smell bad to attract flies, but I’m not even upset. They can also take years, as many as 10, to first bloom and can self heat up to 65°! Native to Italy and Greece, they apparently love the PNW, so likely didn’t take that long, but nonetheless, they’re too unique to be upset about. And they only stink for a day.

Please tell me my yard will just keep blooming with new wonders all summer long 🙏🏼🤞🏼

Please tell me my yard will just keep blooming with new wonders all summer long 🙏🏼🤞🏼

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ARYAH!! 🎉

The best little cuddler and back seat driver is 5 today! There is so much spunk wrapped up in this tiny little person. Her wit and wherewithall are impeccable and she never fails to make me laugh with her comedic timing and tone. She’s always game for every adventure and wants to do it all!

She also never fails to tell anyone she loves them or that she missed them while they were away. Her love is BIG!

May you always go through life so completely accepting of everyone and everything, including yourself. I absolutely love how after you’re upset, you calmly explain to everyone why you were upset 😅.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ARYAH!! 🎉

The best little cuddler and back seat driver is 5 today! There is so much spunk wrapped up in this tiny little person. Her wit and wherewithall are impeccable and she never fails to make me laugh with her comedic timing and tone. She’s always game for every adventure and wants to do it all!

She also never fails to tell anyone she loves them or that she missed them while they were away. Her love is BIG!

May you always go through life so completely accepting of everyone and everything, including yourself. I absolutely love how after you’re upset, you calmly explain to everyone why you were upset 😅.

This is my family.
My beautifully imperfect family.
That I love.

I love them enough to argue with.
Because we will never always agree or see eye to eye.
I love them enough to express my passions, vehemently.
I love them enough to witness theirs.
And I love to see it happen.
I love them enough to let them fail.
Because those will be their greatest lessons.
I love them enough to be imperfect and real.
Always.
I love them enough to welcome their questions.
I love them enough to welcome their questions OF me.

I do not strive to be the perfect mom.
I do not strive to have perfect children.

I strive to be me.
I strive to have children comfortable being themselves.
Asking questions.
Speaking up.
Feeling confident that they truly can.
And when mistakes occur, that means they tried.
And nothing is more important than trying.

So no need to call out why they are each special because they just are.

PC: Tori Osteraa Photography

This is my family.
My beautifully imperfect family.
That I love.

I love them enough to argue with.
Because we will never always agree or see eye to eye.
I love them enough to express my passions, vehemently.
I love them enough to witness theirs.
And I love to see it happen.
I love them enough to let them fail.
Because those will be their greatest lessons.
I love them enough to be imperfect and real.
Always.
I love them enough to welcome their questions.
I love them enough to welcome their questions OF me.

I do not strive to be the perfect mom.
I do not strive to have perfect children.

I strive to be me.
I strive to have children comfortable being themselves.
Asking questions.
Speaking up.
Feeling confident that they truly can.
And when mistakes occur, that means they tried.
And nothing is more important than trying.

So no need to call out why they are each special because they just are.

PC: Tori Osteraa Photography

This is what happens when you decide to hold plans through the rain and the cold and possibly of snow.

This is what happens when there’s a possibility that siblings will bicker and complain but you head on anyway.

This is what happens when you set the intention that YOU are going to enjoy yourself and make the best of whatever you are given outside of your control.

8 individuals together for a photo shoot.
All on time.
Everyone laughed.
Everyone had a good time.

{Photo shoot photos to come later.}

This is what happens when you decide to hold plans through the rain and the cold and possibly of snow.

This is what happens when there’s a possibility that siblings will bicker and complain but you head on anyway.

This is what happens when you set the intention that YOU are going to enjoy yourself and make the best of whatever you are given outside of your control.

8 individuals together for a photo shoot.
All on time.
Everyone laughed.
Everyone had a good time.

{Photo shoot photos to come later.}

April 19, 2015, 9 years ago today, I moved from WI. This is the last photo I took before leaving.

2 states later, we are all in WA and I am on my way to celebrating a home purchase next month, a website launching for my art, selling prints, and a booth at Art on the Ave in July. Not to mention the amazing trip to Cuba I recently returned from, and all the other good that has been unfolding already this year.

The synchronicities that have been falling into place over the last few months are innumerable and a cause for so much gratitude.

When I left I could not imagine any of these things were possible. I couldn’t see or even fathom of any of it in any real way. Yet here I am and here it all is 💚

April 19, 2015, 9 years ago today, I moved from WI. This is the last photo I took before leaving.

2 states later, we are all in WA and I am on my way to celebrating a home purchase next month, a website launching for my art, selling prints, and a booth at Art on the Ave in July. Not to mention the amazing trip to Cuba I recently returned from, and all the other good that has been unfolding already this year.

The synchronicities that have been falling into place over the last few months are innumerable and a cause for so much gratitude.

When I left I could not imagine any of these things were possible. I couldn’t see or even fathom of any of it in any real way. Yet here I am and here it all is 💚

📣 PRINTS NOW AVAILABLE!!
Reach out to me directly if you’re interested!

Website soon to be published!

Things are moving forward and I could not be more excited, and so grateful for all the support I have received every step of the way 🙏🏼. I really could not ask for a better group of people in the background, and out front, cheering me on.

“Leap, and the net will appear.”

📣 PRINTS NOW AVAILABLE!!
Reach out to me directly if you’re interested!

Website soon to be published!

Things are moving forward and I could not be more excited, and so grateful for all the support I have received every step of the way 🙏🏼. I really could not ask for a better group of people in the background, and out front, cheering me on.

“Leap, and the net will appear.��”

Intertwined with all that is Cuba, is an appreciation of art that is enviable.

Sculptors, dancers, painters, craftsman, leatherworkers, musicians… living in their genius, never having to do anything other than.

It was deeply beautiful to me.

They are held in high esteem and celebrated.

While we in the states continue to deplete our funding of…

Blatantly ignoring the enrichment that comes from creativity. How much of an enhancement it is for academics, activating the brain in different ways, allowing for thinking outside of the box. But we cancel it in schools and wonder why our children are scoring less.
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I only wish I’d captured more, but it’s always an afterthought of the moment that I’m truly present in.

Intertwined with all that is Cuba, is an appreciation of art that is enviable.

Sculptors, dancers, painters, craftsman, leatherworkers, musicians… living in their genius, never having to do anything other than.

It was deeply beautiful to me.

They are held in high esteem and celebrated.

While we in the states continue to deplete our funding of…

Blatantly ignoring the enrichment that comes from creativity. How much of an enhancement it is for academics, activating the brain in different ways, allowing for thinking outside of the box. But we cancel it in schools and wonder why our children are scoring less.
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I only wish I’d captured more, but it’s always an afterthought of the moment that I’m truly present in.

International Women’s Day 2024
Fabrica de Arte Cubano, Havana, Cuba

Language, spoken language, is perhaps the single most effectual means of communication we have, yet there were many times that not understanding the words did not interfere with my ability to comprehend.

Passion comes through without words, regardless of words. It is in your voice, in your face, in your body language. Passion does not need to be spoken or articulated perfectly. Passion is expressed and universal.
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I’m sure it is evident to those near me that this trip had a profound effect on me. An effect I am still processing. I could not go to a place like Cuba, immerse myself with its people, and come out the same in the end. After witnessing what these people are capable of, how could I continue to do less in a world where I have so much more?

International Women’s Day 2024
Fabrica de Arte Cubano, Havana, Cuba

Language, spoken language, is perhaps the single most effectual means of communication we have, yet there were many times that not understanding the words did not interfere with my ability to comprehend.

Passion comes through without words, regardless of words. It is in your voice, in your face, in your body language. Passion does not need to be spoken or articulated perfectly. Passion is expressed and universal.
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I’m sure it is evident to those near me that this trip had a profound effect on me. An effect I am still processing. I could not go to a place like Cuba, immerse myself with its people, and come out the same in the end. After witnessing what these people are capable of, how could I continue to do less in a world where I have so much more?

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